Monday, September 5, 2016


As Black Women, Homemakers, Moms and Wives; we ALWAYS have something we need to do and somewhere we need to be. Many times we are so focused on what happened yesterday or what we need to make happen for tomorrow that we totally lose track of TODAY! Our Mind and Body is in such a whirl that our Spirit gets lost in the mix. TODAY IS THE PRESENT.. A GIFT! And if we don't pay attention, accept and acknowledge it, we miss out on something important and beautiful. When we dis-honor the DIVINE PRESENT, we slowly shut the door on future gifts and blessings. So RIGHT NOW as you read this *STOP What You're Doing *LOOK Out At Your World and *LISTEN To The Song Of Your Life! You brought this moment into being through your choices and actions so take a breath and experience it! Quietly focus your MIND and BODY and let your SPIRIT dance and flow in Celebration and Gratitude! If you feel that adjustments need to be made, then choose to make them as you Live In THIS Now Moment! BE Here, Right Now, In Love, Awareness and Acceptance! Your Present!

BE INSPIRED! Blessings and Happiness! 

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Monday, August 29, 2016


"I Am Ready To Become The Next DYNAMIC Vision Of Myself With You!" Those of us who are wives, know that Marriage is a CONSTANT work in progress. As the years pass, and we each GO through and GROW through choices, decisions and experiences in our life together; we get to a point where we can finally ENVISION ourselves at the "Next Level!" a beautiful place to be. With this declaration, "I AM READY TO BECOME THE NEXT DYNAMIC VISION OF MYSELF WITH YOU!", The Ascension of our marriage has begun! Submit To Your Marriage, Commit To Your Love! Take Flight Together! ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE! Vincent and I Are Now 32 Years and Counting! We Just Celebrated Our Anniversary On The 26th! Black Love Is A Beautiful Thing! Praises To The Most High! Ashe!

BE INSPIRED! Blessings and Happiness!

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Monday, August 22, 2016


The Decisions and Choices that we make all day, everyday DEFINE WHO we are, WHAT we do, WHEN we do it, WHERE we are, WHY we do what we do, and HOW we do it! The Foundation of Our Decisions and Choices are rooted in the BELIEFS we have ABOUT OURSELVES and the VALUES we have FOR OURSELVES at our authentic inner CORE. How many times have we said "YES" when we know THAT should have been a "NO!" How many times have we soothed our hurting hearts with food or shopping? Or put someone else's wants above our own health, happiness and well-being? As Black Women, Homemakers, Moms and Wives it's so easy to do. And many times we believe it's the Right Thing to do! But WE ARE PEOPLE TOO! WE MATTER! And the more we understand, accept and acknowledge that, the more empowered we and our families will be! So Show yourSELF some love. Take some time today and consider YOUR VALUE. YOUR CORE VALUES. What do you stand on? Use them as an ACCOUNTABILITY PARTNER that you consult with every time you need to make a decision or choice. These are mine above. I use them in my personal and business life experiences. They are priceless and have transformed my life! BEGIN WITH ONE and go from there! HONOR YOURSELF, DO IT NOW My Sistahs! I'm here if you need support, but I know you can do it!

BE INSPIRED! Blessings and Happiness!

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Monday, August 15, 2016


So Grateful To See Another Day Where We Can Live In ABUNDANT BEAUTY, HEALTH, HAPPINESS and WEALTH! Even If You Don't See This Manifested Physically In Your Life (yet)... SEE IT IN YOUR MIND. As Black Women, We Are Visionaries and The First Mothers On This Planet! Let The VISION Be Born! Plant The Seed. Water and Feed It With Belief, Prayer and ACTION Everyday! Then Watch It Appear and Grow Into Your Body and Physical World, As It Elevates and Empowers Your Spirit! EDUCATE and ENLIGHTEN Your MIND-BODY-SPIRIT To Bring ABUNDANT BEAUTY, HEALTH, HAPPINESS and WEALTH Into Your Life! DO IT, DO IT AGAIN, and AGAIN! Then TEACH YOUR FAMILY To DO IT! Create A Living Legacy Of Everyday Abundance Together For Today, Tomorrow and Generations To Come! 

BE INSPIRED! Blessings and Happiness!

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Monday, August 8, 2016


Peace and Blessings My Sistahs! We are Here To See Another Day! Praises To The Most High! We Have Another Day To LEARN, TEACH, INSPIRE, EMPOWER, SERVE, HEAL and LOVE ON Ourselves and Our Families! As Black Women, OUR BEAUTY SHINES IN ALL THAT WE ARE AND ALL THAT WE DO! This Authentic, Meaningful Work That We Do As Homemakers, Wives and Mothers IMPACTS Not Only Ourselves and Our Families, But Our Local and World Community As Well. We Are The Beautiful Black Women, Who Empower Our Beautiful Black Families To Empower Our Amazing, Dynamic Black Community and World! Our Work ENERGIZES Mother Earth! Stay In Alignment With Her! Be Joyful and Celebrate Feminine Mind-Body-Spirit! Everyday, We Not Only MAKE A Difference, WE ARE THE DIFFERENCE! Know, Accept and Love, YourSELF Always!! 

BE INSPIRED! Blessings and Happiness!

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Friday, August 5, 2016


ABUNDANT BEAUTY, HEALTH, HAPPINESS and WEALTH! I am so happy to be back with you! I've been continuing on this path of 90 Day Transformation Cycles for mySELF and my business, DYNAMICMOM ENTERPRISES. Along this 2 year journey so far, with the ebb and flow of growth and progress, I've been inspired to take small breaks from all my online, outer spaces and go within to reconnect, realign and BREATTHE: Be Relaxed Energy Always Transcending To Higher Elevation! The challenge in taking any project forward; especially "project me"; can become overwhelming and steal our breath away, literally. As we try new ideas and concepts, if we don't have enough clarity or certainty, the FEAR of not knowing how things will turn out or how they will be received can really stress us out if we let it! And making decisions based in fear never work in our best interest.

I'm learning that when we don't stop to BREATTHE, we sometimes create this gargantuan task within our project, that grows so big in our minds that it can shut us down in our mind-body-spirit. We start telling ourselves things like, "What was I thinking, I've got way too much on my plate to do this" or "Nobody's gonna get this" or "I just can't do this!" When we start questioning ourselves and our actions, that's a notification that it's time to make the choice to STOP and BREATTHE! I became overwhelmed with all the goals that I created for myself on this part of my Transformation Project and I needed to BREATTHE, so I stopped posting to my blogs and social media. I realized that I needed to focus on living and creating so that I had something to share. And during these now 4 months that I've been silent, I went within to live, to reconnect, realign and birth new information. And explore new ways to share this information with you that engage and celebrate my happiness and authentic creativity! My upcoming book is a result of this experience! So excited! I'll keep you posted for the release date!

I also realized that I overwhelmed myself because I told myself lies, that all my written offerings had to be these perfect, long profound novel style blogs and posts that I labored over for hours and days that would blow your mind EVERYTIME! It was exhausting just thinking about it! I was not loving mySELF doing that. I learned that a great graphic with a short and concise few words or short story following it, can offer just as powerful a message! So I can continue now! Allowing mySELF to Let Go and BREATTHE, opened up a space of Freedom and Belief within me, and with that, I hope to open up that space within you.

My sistah, I encourage you to STOP and BREATTHE: Be Relaxed Energy Always Transcending To Higher Elevation! Create that Powerful Space of FREEDOM & BELIEF inside of you so that you can Engage and Celebrate Your Happiness and Authentic Creativity! BREATTHE Into Your Next Level!

BE INSPIRED! Blessings & Happiness!

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Wednesday, April 6, 2016


Recently, my husband and I were reminiscing about our early days as highschool sweethearts at Brooklyn Tech H.S. in NYC. Class of '82! Woohoo! He was an aeronautics major on the football team and I was an architecture major on the cheering squad! Fun times! During that conversation, I recalled what my VISION and DREAMS were for my future at that time. I saw this picture of my future self...

Married To My Soulmate (Vincent)
* 2 Children- 1 Girl, 1 Boy
* Living In A Beautiful Home With A Yard
* Owning My Own Business (that makes a real difference in the lives of others)
* Dance Instructor/ Choreographer 
* College Degree
* Educator
* Driving A Cute But Practical "Mommy" Car, Red or Burgundy!  

I always kept this picture in my mind and in my heart. I was so passionate about it! As I worked toward it little by little, my "future" self became my "now" self. It took a little over 20 years for the whole of my dreams to physically manifest and as they did, I was so happy, grateful and ready to receive each one of them... 

* My Husband and Soulmate, Vincent! 
* Our Two Children: 1 Girl- Nakkiyya Amira! 1 Boy- Hasaan Ajaye! 
* Our Beautiful Home with a Yard (one of the last dreams to manifest and we actually watched it being built from the ground up!)
* My Own (Homebased) Business- DYNAMICMOM ENTERPRISES (that makes a real difference in the lives of homemakers, moms and wives!) 
* Dancer/Instructor/Choreographer (Modern, Jazz, Bellydance)! 
* Liberal Arts/ Social Science Degree: College of New Rochelle Class of '98 (with HONORS, 2 babies and a husband!) HARD WORK!
* Educator: Cultural & Performing Arts, Feminine Empowerment, AND Homeschooled Our Children (for 11years!) 
* My Cute Burgundy-Red Hyundai Tuscon SUV! We call it- "The DynamicMom Mobile!" 


But the saying is true, "Be Careful What You Wish For, You Just Might Get It!" I say, YOU WILL Get It!" Along with the fulfillment of my dreams...came a humbling reminder. With every blessing came the "next level challenges, lessons and tests." And as it turns out, by the grace of The Most High, I was ready for those too. What doesn't break you, makes you stronger and more wise, right? So true! So true! Wow!   

Vincent and I are now married 31-1/2 years... and counting, Praise be to the Most High! 

Our children are now ages 27yrs- Nakkiyya and 25yrs- Hasaan. They are living incredible lives by their design; and it is so amazing to watch their visions unfold and manifest as they grow. 

In raising them I've learned that as we MOVE towards our future and our dreams with Intention, VISION, Passion and Joy; we CREATE footprints in the sand for our children to follow. Here they can IMAGINE how they can CREATE and MOVE towards their future and manifest their dreams! It's a dynamic relationship. A beautiful authentic journey for us all!  


Keep Dreaming! Keep Moving! When We Have VISION, Our Families Win! We Are UNSTOPPABLE! 

BE INSPIRED! Blessings and Happiness!

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Saturday, March 5, 2016


Getting things done is our job description as homemakers, moms and wives. Everyday, all day, it's what we do. But how do we get ready to do...what we do? How do we prepare? What specific things, if any, do we do to fuel and inspire us? I thought about that and decided to observe myself for a few days to see if there was an answer to these questions. And guess what? There was! My self observation revealed that I do the same 4 things every morning before I start my job of getting things done! Without fail. Amazing! So I decided to give this phenomena a name.  

Here's My 4 STEP MORNING HEALTH and BEAUTY ROUTINE! It jump starts my day!

#1. YOGA and MEDITATION: Helps me connect with my center, flexibility, flow and breath! 

#2. SHOWER and PUT ON SOMETHING PRETTY: Working from home presents the challenge of, well...Being At Home! Unlike my family, for me, HOME Is My Workplace and getting dressed helps me feel Productive, Creative and Successful!

#3. PUT ON MY MAKEUP: I Always like to look finished in my fave AVON Makeup! So I wear a little Mineral Face powder, Eye Shadow, Eye Liner, Mascara and a Moisturizing Lipstick. I also make sure my Eyebrows are tight. They frame the face. With my makeup done, I'm now fully dressed and ready to answer the door for deliveries or mail, film a video, or run a quick errand to the post office, bank or store! 

#4. PREPARE MY HYDRATION STATION: I work at my computer in my office for a good part of the day and I need to stay hydrated. So every morning when I come downstairs, I prepare a cup of my faaavvee Organic Coffee... Organo Gold Black with brown sugar in my DME Logo Mug! Then I make some Green Tea with raw honey in my DME Travel Mug and also grab a bottle of water. I place them all on the silver platter at my work station and sip away to keep me feeling alert, happy, hydrated and beautiful all day! My Hydration Station provides me with antioxidants, lots of energy, detoxification, a clear and focused mind and beautiful skin too! *Recently I added an adorable tumbler of green juice with kale, bananas, apples, carrots and berries into the mix. Delish! 

So what I learned from this little experiment in self observation is that I combine 4 separate "habits" or "activities" into 1 "routine" that I do every morning. This routine gets me ready to get things done! This might sound a little like "multi-tasking", but I think it's different. I do my 4 habit activities 1 at a time, not overlapping. I complete 1 before I begin the next. However, I complete them all within a given space in time. A time block or what I like to call, a time window. So with this information, I've renamed this process and call this habit combining routine an "ACTIVITY CIRCLE" and I've also begun to apply it to my "getting things done" job as well. 

For instance, I'll check my planner to see what's on deck for today (I plan my To Do List the night before). Then I'll create Activity Circles from my list. Here are some examples...

1) Check My Email
2) Social Media Engagement 
3) Schedule Social Media Posts

1) Prep For Video
2) Film Video
3) Write Blog Post
1) Wipe Down Table and Counter Tops
2) Sweep Kitchen Floor
3) Mop Kitchen Floor

1) Write Out Meal List For The Week In My Meal Planner 
2) Make Shopping List Of Ingredients In My Meal Planner 
3) Eat A Snack (prep for #4)
4) Go Food Shopping With My List (I never go food shopping when I'm hungry- dangerous :-)

1) Wash Laundry
2) Dry Laundry
3) Fold Laundry
4) Put Laundry Away

**Below is the Activity Circle I do at Dawn, BEFORE my 4 Step Morning Health and Beauty Routine Above. Everyday I am Blessed to Wake Up I....

1) Pray
2) Make Bed 
3) Read From Spiritual Text 

And there you have it! The interesting thing that I discovered, is that I was already doing these "Activity Circles", now I just acknowledge them. And I'm grateful for them too. I hope that you'll be inspired to create and/or acknowledge your own ACTIVITY CIRCLES to help you get things done in your Dynamic Homemaker-Mom-Wife Life! Let me know how it goes!  

BE INSPIRED! Blessings and Happiness!

"The DynamicMom"
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Thursday, March 3, 2016


Sometimes we find ourselves in a situation that is extremely stressful and tension filled. If we perceive this to be some sort of test or trial from on high, we're probably right. Now it's up to us to learn the lessons, make the necessary changes in our lives and pass the test. If we don't learn and self correct, the test WILL present itself again and again. Spiritual tests are necessary for our personal growth and development. They shine a light on the problem (our weakness), present the solution and challenge us to embrace it. 

If we encounter difficulty in conquering the challenge and moving past the test, it indicates that we are out of Divine Alignment, still "inside" of the problem. Connected to it. In relationship with it, like a partnership or soulmate. We must position ourselves "outside" of the issue to get a different perspective on it, to be able to accept the solution. In order to do that...we must B.R.E.A.T.T.H.E!  BE RELAXED ENERGY ALWAYS TRANSCENDING TO HIGHER ELEVATION! 

The Strength Of The Human Spirit Is Incredible. The Strength Of The Human Feminine Spirit Is PHENOMENAL! 

B.R.E.A.T.T.H.E and Believe!

*This post was inspired by a social media post I saw today from a sistah-friend going through a test. I know she will be just fine!

BE INSPIRED! Blessings and Happiness!

"The DynamicMom"
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Sunday, February 21, 2016


The other day, I was designing new graphics for my websites and blogs. As I "played" with this particular picture, I tried a graphic effect that I hadn't tried before and I instantly saw something beautiful. Something that made me sit back in my chair breathless, speechless. When a word did make it's way from my lips it was, "Wow!" I just kind of sat mesmerized by this image that I felt I was guided, instructed even, to create. Then words started coming and I typed the inspirational message that you see above. I feel like I was even guided to choose this font. This was truly a Divine Experience! Similar to when I write a poem. So now as I write this post, I'm inspired to add this... 

As Homemakers, Moms and Wives, we always have a full plate. So full that sometimes we forget to eat. We forget to feed and nurture our feminine spirit. Our daily lives can become so mechanical, so out of touch with our divine essence that we feel non-existent. And as we start to whither and shrink away inside, we yearn for our husband, children, friends, family, somebody to rescue us, acknowledge us, and build us back up. We forgot that at the center of all, we are Divine Beings.  


I published this picture on my website and phoned my mother soon after to invite her to have a look at it. Her response was exactly like mine, "Wow!" What a blessing! Remember my beautiful sistahs; WHAT we are as Dynamic Feminine Energy, Love and Light empowers WHO we are as Homemakers, Moms and Wives! 

So Cry Those Tears of Joy and Delight! Re-Align With Your Divine! Know Your Authentic Beautiful Self and Celebrate!   

BE Inspired!

The DynamicMom
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